CW - Interesting you are asking about counseling for kids. I just talked to someone who is dealing with a WAW. He went to see a psychologist for himself but also asked him if he should take his kids to see him. The advice of the Psychologist was NO, unless there is an obvious problem that the child needs help with. He is of the opinion that if you bring them to counseling just to talk about the separation, you may magnify the problem for the child to much larger proportions...like opening a can of worms. But that's just an opinion of one Psychologist....

My D16 went to see her school councilor when H moved out. It was her choice.

Hope this helps

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M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO