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You have to trust your ten years together and that it has some pull for you. You have to trust that there is a bond there that she's HIDING from you and right now would never admit to.


I could only hope on the other hand I said and did some terrible things.

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I checked the phone logs. During the time my W had left this morning/early afternoon she had text a female from work (about 20 text msgs in exchange). This is the same female who has, what I come to understand, open relationship with her husband. She is seeing someone my W and her work with. The person this female co-worker is seeing is best friends with OM.

The first text msg was right after I left for church. Once the text messages began my W then started to do all those google searches for "father rights to child."

I am not sure if this female/her 'boy friend' are acting as mediators for my W and OM.

My W is hiding so much from me but yet says "I have nothing to hide"...I want to call her out on so much but yet I act as if I m ignorant to it all...

Last edited by OfficerInNeed; 05/17/10 03:55 AM.
M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10