I think she wanted you to press on, and persist, and take her.
Agreed, I failed that test a couple of times in the past, when (x)W days later even said herself it was a test. They can be so brutal sometimes.
dday101798 out [getting ready to go home and cuddle (x)W, maybe rub her feet, and would tear her apart if she came home smelling like food, THEN got naked..yummy, lol]
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
Nothing new really. WAW continues to live in her apartment. She still comes to the house on Sundays to brign groceries and make dinner. Once in a while I visit her at her apartment. Neither of us (as far as I know) is dating anyone.
I now refer to her as my "kindawife" when referring to her.
how are you holding up btm? how is this working for you? has it been difficult? are you getting tired of the wait? how has GAL'ing been for you, what's new with that? how often do you see each other during the week aside from the sunday dinner?
I'm good. Sometimes I forget all about the situation.
I can't say it's working for me, but it's also isn't working. Just vanilla.
Not difficult at all really.
Not really GAL, but not wanting to either. I am very comfortable with my life the way it is.
We maybe see each other once a week other than Sunday. Text or talk on phone a couple times a week. Chat on FB once in a while.
She continues to want me in her life in some ways, but stil not ready to commit 100%. I'm ok with that for now, but one day we need to make a decision.
I went to her apartment and then we went to a small party a friend of hers. we went back to her apartment and she initiated sex.
We were lying in her bed afterwards and talking. She said some things like 'we may never be back together". "you are further away than ever", "you just don't get it". None of it was said in a spiteful way, but it seemed like an odd time.
Then she told me it was time for me to go home, kissed and hugged me and off I went.
Today, she came over for the usual Sunday family dinner and never said a word.
She has her own place, she's getting comfortable and used to the single life, she's may even be indulging thoughts of a relationship with someone new, she called/texted you on a friday to ask if you wanted to go out on a date and you were free and available just as she expected, you didn't play hard to get, you were easy, no mystery, you have sex, she "tags" you and she tells you after sex that "you just don't get it" and that you guys may never get back together - those aren't things people usually say after having sex.
Am I 100% correct?
No.
But I don't think that I'm that far off.
I think she is bored with what she has, she wants a challenge, she wants to chase someone, she wants someone new, and I think... you make this to easy for her.
it's just advice but when you study human nature, you do pick up on things that happen and why they happen, just like when a WAS says "I love you but I'm not in love with you", is that person having an EA or PA or planning one every single time when this statement is made? NO, you can't say that this is true 100% of the time but the percentage is very high, high enough to consider that something might be up.
Same thing with other things that WAS's do, nothing anyone does is new anymore, if someone does something, chances are quite a few others have done it before as well, there are no "pioneers" here, you just have to learn to spot the trends.
