I second (or third, fourth, etc) what everyone said about the bike rack. Silly thing he did, but neat improvement for your truck, when you get it back
I looked into C for kids, when everything first happened, and was advised to wait at least 1 year. D was so upset that she was having night-time panic attacks the first few months (due in part to the extreme suddeness and shock and seeing WH just literally bolt out the door with a suitcase and his computer, weird!). They told me that it would take time to settle things down and there could be too much coming into it that need not become an issue, in the time before that. Sort of that you don't want to give weight to things that may never be issues in their lives anyways. They told me, anyways, that it's not until a year or more that whatever conflicts the children internalize, that they will have to find ways as children (or later as adults) to deal with. So to wait. It's true, too, that many of the early day things are now history to them, long forgotten. I guess it depends though on the child, and how they cope. My 2 cents anyways, for what that's worth.
