NOW, he's telling the kids it's my fault he's not with them.

That if it was up to him, he would live with them, and they would all be great.

But "I" am the problem. He can't live with ME. So since they are with me, he can't live with them either, please feel sorry for him.

And he tells them he can't live with me because I argue with him all the time.

The man has not lived here for 10 months, literally abandonded us with no notice last year, now I work full-time and spend almost all my free time with the kids, and with the last bit try to GAL. I have nothing at all to do with him or his sitch or his problems, am not responsible for these choices he's made, and I almost never say anything to argue with him. The only thing I say really is that I miss him and our family all being and living together.

What is wrong with this man?