I see both sides in this. I just do better the less I see STBXW. I avoid her whenever possible. I try only to go to stuff I need to be at.

But you can't let the WAS keep you from things. Toughy.

I'm lucky. First thing I did was join a very large church. At first, I'll be honest, I thought the girls would drag STBXW there and she'd see the error of her ways.

Now. I'd make sure we weren't at the same service. I live in a big enough city and STBXW and I have different groups of friends and interests that I haven't run into once outside of stuff with the kids.

Hey, BBJ. You haven't mentioned OW in a long time. Is Dan still with her. No reason really for the question. Just curious.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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