I hate the thought that something I'm going to do now is going to cause him further grief
Then don't do it. Shelbel you do not need to do anything right now. I may be misinterpreting this but it sounds like you have already committed yourself to a D. If this is indeed the case then WHY? Can I ask what is the harm in waiting? What is the harm in giving him and YOURSELF the time to work on both of your issues? Time my friend is on YOUR side. It may not seem like it now but it really is.
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Except that now I know that it's not my problem
Good so now that you know it is not your problem what exactly are you going to do?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
