MH - Once you get your finances in order, you will breathe easier. I find that part extremely stressful on the top of the R troubles. Especially when H is flaking out again...spending 2 weeks out of a month on "vacation with OW" instead of concentrating on our already suffering business. Grrrr
Is you H on board with your plan to separate finances?
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO