Hi there, I rarely get to this part of the boards any more, but I caught this. Read through a couple of your old posts, can't tell if an OW is involved. In any case don't take the bait. Whatever he is up to, whether conscious or not, he is trying to justify his actions by creating a situation where he can blame you. Or he could be mentally unstable, as Jack said, who knows. Stay strong and watch those finances, you might be legally protected on the mortgage obligation, but those purchases are marital assets being spent that could be difficult to recover in the short term. Take care of yourself. Wonder