I'm sorry, did I miss it? Why can't you move back in?
I also wondered a lot if he was "just done" with me or if it was MLC. Then clarity hit me, about two months into the journey, and it was this: IT DOESN'T MATTER.
People kept saying it but it didn't sink in. (1) If it's MLC, your path is to work on yourself, make yourself happy, make yourself fulfilled and fix any problems you have (did he spew anything at you that was a problem you had to fix? Too fat, too thin, too controlling, not controlling enough, etc? Decide if it was true and if so, do you want to fix it?) and (2) he's just done with you? Move on, make yourself happy, work on your own problems, make yourself fulfilled.
See what I mean? It sunk in about 8 weeks in for me.
Take time for you and really do the hard, introspective work to see what it is that you need to fix, and then do those things.
