W decided she would go up tot he hospital and visit FIL GF. I asked if it was OK if I too went, W said it was fine.
We went up to visit. On the way up there we had serious talk regarding FIL situation and my W brother's outlook (whole other story). W also told me where she went when she left earlier.
W visit for a little bit. I exhibit a caring person showing compassion for FIL GF. I went out my way to track down a nurse to get her meds.
When we were leaving I gave FIL GF a hug and words of encouragement. W did same and as we walked out W said "We love you"
On the way home we talked more about brother and then sister of my W.
We then spoke about MIL. My W has grudge against her mother saying "I don't know where her head is, the problem is, she got married to my father at 17 then had children in her 20s, then when her and my father separated she went back to being a teenager....going out all the time ect.."
I wonder if that how W sees herself now, we met when she was 14..
We then spoke about taking the dog for a walk and seeing the sunset. So we went to the waterfront with our dog took pictures, fooled around with the dog watched some of the sunset then went home...
on the way home we stopped for some food (take out) went home and ate and watched TV. W is now in bed.
W has been very distant. I recall when we would go to the same place and watch the sunsets and how close us to were...
It feels odd, it is like she is someone else W or GF.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
