Ok - I am going to be brutally honest. The email sounds, ahem, bossy and controlling. IF THIS is what you are going for, then send away!

If you really want his input on how to see his daughter, then I would change the tone a bit.

What are your goals for sending the letter? How much involvement can he have with his daughter?

I really hope I didn't offend you Gatsby! I just am trying to help!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004