still separated, headed for D?

[flowmom]

Newmama, I think you are going through some shifts that are very healthy for you.

GRIEF
The likely outcome here is not the one that you wanted and you are feeling very sad. Let the tears flow...they are part of the process. Don't let yourself spiral downward, but some healthy release is very important. Be super gentle with yourself. It's not always a good time to act "as if".

ANGER
I am very glad to read about the angry feelings that you're having towards WH. It's very important to recognize what his actions say about his character. It's part of the process of detachment to connect with reality. And the reality is that your H would have to do a huge amount of work on himself to deserve a chance with you.

BOUNDARIES
Continuing to insist on your space is a very healthy choice for you.

(((hugs))))