Yea, too bad SHE didn't write it, but she won't. I actually give her about a 50/50 chance of maintaining her part of the NC deal, just because I know she has usually been inclined to keep her word in the past. Although with the OM, she has surprised me and has been more deceitful than I have ever known her to be before.
She did tell the OM to expect an email from me that she had nothing to do with, so that doesn't help at all. I hope she didn't tell him to ignore it.
Why of COURSE she did. I predicted this as soon as I read your "she just went out for awhile" post, above.
A true no-contact letter must be written by the formerly wayward spouse, and NOTHING ADDED OR SUBTRACTED FROM IT, as it is either mailed or delivered by the betrayed spouse.
Ken, if she refuses to write it, then you pretty much have your answer as to whether or not she was sincere in her offer of 3 months of no-contact.
