My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

Yea, too bad SHE didn't write it, but she won't. I actually give her about a 50/50 chance of maintaining her part of the NC deal, just because I know she has usually been inclined to keep her word in the past. Although with the OM, she has surprised me and has been more deceitful than I have ever known her to be before.

She did tell the OM to expect an email from me that she had nothing to do with, so that doesn't help at all. I hope she didn't tell him to ignore it. I think she really is willing to go through with this because of my actions this morning, but I might be deceived.

You said your husband felt like a prisoner for those 6 months, so I imagine my wife will feel like that too for the next three months. I have felt like the prisoner for the last 10 months.

She tells me, "But I'm not having sex with you!" I told her, "I can understand you don't feel like it right now, but you have to keep an open mind and give our relationship a genuine chance or I will feel that you haven't really upheld your part of the deal. You're probably just thinking, 'I'll just do my time, and then I can get my peaceful divorce!"

I had a discussion with my friend from church and he said I should think about, "What would Jesus do in this situation?" And I told him, "I don't see Jesus just quietly tolerating this kind of sin. I think he would take a stand against it." He saw my point in that and said, "Well you have to what you feel is right."