Small town church one service. Roughly 80-100 people attend. At first I said ok I would not go on the days he took the kids but then I changed my mind. Because a couple hours later Nathan had ball practice...was I supposed to not go to that either?
So I went about 20 minutes into practice. Dan had already called, I didn't answer, and said he would have MIL come in to keep an eye on Sydney if I wasn't coming. Ummm...first you don't think I should be with the kids on your day then you call looking for me? Geez...
So I went and after practice I told him he'd have to learn to handle Sydney's meltdowns bc we have umpteen years of school concerts, ball games, church, etc where the kids would see us both and I wasn't going to stop going to events. I mean if I gave in on one thing it would just snowball. Besides, Sydney crying for her mom is part of the fallout from their dad walking away...