I feel for you. I was also divorced back in Feb 2010.
And I also can not understand how a WAS can destroy a marriage and have no feelings about it yet can shed tears when it involves their own selfish new single life.
But as they say here all the time. There is no logic. The WAS make themselves believe what they want to believe to justify their escape. And they do not care who they hurt.
Our job as a LBS is to detach from all this and see it as what it is and that we can not control it.
Just deal with whats real for now. That is what I try to do. My XW is in the same fantasy world your XH is in. And we are not a part of that world.
((hugs))
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
