The FT won't work with her unless she agrees to work CONSTRUCTIVELY with the marriage rather than DESTRUCTIVELY.
I think a few weeks w/o her kids or a future will start to wear on her.. if she even gets out the door. Her backing down and agreeing to "no contact" with OM here shows she was weak.
To be honest Ken I would have pushed the six months and regular family therapy sessions... she's SCARED Ken... she IS scared... she does NOT want to divorce you... it scares her to have to leave and be a part time mom... I honestly can't even see her getting out the door. She backed down Ken, you DID scare her.. why let her off the hook this easily? I would have pushed it much longer... you let her off the hook... why?
She might, but I can't see her walking out on her kids for this creep... No way.