My H has also commented that I never call, I have just told him that I want to give him the time and space he needs to think things through. That I thought this was the best way for me to support what he is going through.
Sounds like the TG stuff is a done deal, so I would be gracious in what you are doing and not defend yourself or make any statements about who was/wasn't invited where. Just continue to be excited about the wonderful meal you and the kids are going to have.
Enjoy and you have given me a great idea for the holidays---I've always wanted to do brunch at the Hotel Hershey, but it so outrageously expensive, but what the heck, new traditions for this Christmas.
