no. i didn't get text until today. Me and my son went to my sisters today 2 hrs away and my h didn't know we were going. he was dissapointed he didn't get to see my son today.
I think h still wants his motorcycle i am having a hard time letting that go, i want to let him have his freedom but it bothers me that she might be riding with him like i use to.
He will undoubtedly be doing lots of things with her that he used to do with you. You must let him. If it belongs to him, let him have it. Witholding his bike won't stop him being with her.
Now what are you doing that YOU like? It's about YOU not him.
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.
Please understand, you cannot control him and what he does w/his life. He is no longer living w/you and I know that hurts, but you cannot withhold those items that are his. The motorcycle is his. If he should ask for other things that belong to him, give them to him.
I understand how you feel, but there's nothing you can do about it. The only person you can control right now is you. You are going to have to find a way to work through all of this because you do not want to become an angry, bitter woman for the rest of your life. Please allow God to work on him.
What are your plans for today? I do hope that you will find something to take your mind off of your h and the situation. Have you begun to plant flowers or spent any time in your garden/yard? Nature has a way of soothing the soul.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Please understand, you cannot control him and what he does w/his life. He is no longer living w/you and I know that hurts, but you cannot withhold those items that are his. The motorcycle is his. If he should ask for other things that belong to him, give them to him.
I understand how you feel, but there's nothing you can do about it. The only person you can control right now is you. You are going to have to find a way to work through all of this because you do not want to become an angry, bitter woman for the rest of your life. Please allow God to work on him.
Me and my son went to my sisters this weekend in PA. We had a fun weekend. My nephew and his fiance had a baby girl, she is so cute. Blonde hair and blue eyes. It was my other nephews birthday too. We had a cook out and we played frisbee and our dogs ran around at the baseball field. We might go there again in 2 weeks and go kayaking. It is a long trip though 2 and a half hours, i get tired driving that far. I use to not get tired taking the trip, maybe because of stress. My son told h we were there for nephews birthday. H text me and said to give nephew 60. for his birthday and other nephew 200. for new baby and he would give it back to me.I guess he still cares about my family.
