I guess it's just driving me crazy wondering if what my husband is doing is just part of the MLC, or is it just the behaviors of a man who is DONE with me. Is all this because I'm just that bad/not good enough for him anymore? Is there any way to turn this around?

I know I sound so desperate. ::sigh:: I had been doing pretty well until this weekend. I'm just wanting him and my family back so bad. It's been over a month, and he's still so cold, distant, even mean to me still. Why does he keep pursuing these other women when I am right here, loving him? ugh...again...I just don't understand.

M: 34
WAH: 38 (in MLC)
Together: 11 years
Married since: November 2000
DS: 15
DS: 11
DS: 10
ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009
Living separately since: April 2010