Lin you have the patience of a saint..This MLC is truly crazy..I am probably lucky that I have NC so not seeing/hearing what my H is going through.It also makes it difficult to know what stage he is..clearly replay but not sure how bad the depression is. I have the financial burdens because he has not paid a penny to the household bills.He does pay 50 uk pounds for my D14 other than that he has given me nothing. I hve enough savings to keep me going until Sept. I had a good career before this and took redundacy last April hoping to get a new job after summer09. The A sent me over the edge and I have been looking for the last few months.I earn a very good salary but not having ajob will compromise our home.I never thought he would ever do any of this... Every time you tellme ssomething else I start to think how lucky I am not to be exposed to what you have had to deal with.. Take care and hugs to you and your lovely family((()))
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith
