Allen mentioned it and stressed it, but it needs to be restated again-
watch your behavior- A's will trigger all sorts of things w/in you. It's her shirt not yours- remember that. It says nothing of the type of person you are, just that WAW was unable to address things in a healthy manner.
You will be gaslighted and there will be many, many lies...and disrespect.
Always come off being the mature one-
I had a huge problem w/ this due to situations and my own poor impulse control.
It will be paramount for you to be the one whom is beyond reproach
