Do you feel like you are cycling up and down? Or just a straight path downward?

I do wonder if things can be unforgivable at times. And what would it take for true healing to occur.


Bottling up and suppressing is never good of course.

I guess I have to ask you.
Would ending the marriage and leaving him make you feel the "peace" you are searching for?


Just asking- I have no particular inclination as to which way you should go.


I guess- what will make you feel better.

I know it's not a "magic bullet" but something that would move you towards a positive direction.

Maybe you really don't know... what that "something" is....
maybe others here or an IC would know what that "something" is....

Last edited by june72; 05/16/10 07:40 PM.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)