So long, and thanks for the fish

[lees]

Well I've had very little contact with her whatsoever since the break up. We saw each other a couple of times in the first 2 weeks and since then I've only seen her twice. Once at her Dad's farm where I just blanked her completely as I just couldn't handle speaking to her at that time, and then last week she turned up unexpectedly to pay the court order I had to take out to get my money from her. I hear about her and OW a lot from other people especially at work, her family, and it helps me with keeping the fog idea in my head. She isn't really behaving like her usual sane self, and has certainly gone off piste with choice of partner. I've met all but one of her previous serious partners, and they have all been rather more like myself. It helps with thinking they'll never last. But who knows? Wish there were both a crystal ball to put us out of our misery, and a magic OP removing tool - perhaps we can steal one from Adobe Photoshop.

So come on Aver - what do you want? What does your ideal future hold for you (unconnected to relationships)?

Ah well fibula can be pretty painful, especially if the nerve that wraps around it is involved.

Well I've never tried, but I expect it's pretty tough to manage a decent towel whip with your own frood towel. Better leave that to the rest of us.