I realize more and more every day that it's just not a good idea to share intimate details w/non-DB'ers. I realize that the 'rents are a diff. story. Most of the time when I share details with the Mothers, I feel worse, so I quit doing it. I think that eventually they will quit asking the more evasive you are. And, you can "act as if" with them too. I tell my mom fine, good...

karen