going off of her quote- ask yourself- "do you want to be w/ someone whom hides their true self?"
My sitch is exactly the same- even down to the possibility of the D being unavoidable...
Some people do indeed change- they choose who they wish to take on into their "new" life.
You can be that person, but it will be W's choice.
She has walls built up- keeping you out. It's sad b/c we know this- my W also has made me to be a monster- sadly, I have even acted the part in my sitch.
How are you? What are you feeling? Are you detached?
I'm glad that you are concerned about W, and I know it's frustrating the W does not seem to care that you are.
The irony in all these sitches is that WAS is going through so much pain- LBS is as well, and would like nothing but to be there for WAS- instead WAS will be open to anyone but LBS.
I hope you're well...from the sounds of it you are detached, just remember to be positive...that is key.
