I am not a pro by any means- it's not fair for any of us to assume anything- BUT- I feel as though she is indeed depressed and trying to figure out her life.
Perhaps she's still grieving r w/ OM or trying to figure out her feelings for you- probably both.
Forgive me if I am pointing out the obvious-
I can say this though- she doesn't even know how she feels-
My WAW returned briefly- spoke about how she wanted children, how she wished she was w/ me when I visited my birth sister, etc, etc.
Similarly- since she's bolted yet again, her quotes are "do not grieve the past or fear the future, but make the present as beautiful as you can."
People often exaggerate their "mind set" when they are confused so that they are offered reassurance...I know this is the case w/ my W.
Your W is still in the house- and it seems as though you are doing well to not aggravate the sitch.
Remember, it is her shirt, not yours. Be the best you can be, and do not exude any negativity- that is the real killer in these sitches.
