he is too damn prideful and stubborn and selfish to make it happen.
This is not a 2x4 but if you do want to get further along, this is the line of thinking that you need to concetrate on changing.
You are not divorced because of his pride sis. Or because he is stubborn. It is not that simple. It is much worse than that. You are waaaay too easy on him.
Crying is like a valve, helps let some pressure out. Hugs K
I know it is worse than that, that is why it makes me so sick for my kids bc I don't see him ever being able to change. Even today when he cried when they sang his grandma's funeral song I thought, "He can cry, he is human, so how can he not feel what he is doing is wrong?" Ugh.
I cannot believe I had my two babies with someone who could cheat on me repeatedly, walk away, and rewrite history to make it all MY fault. This is not their doing yet they have to deal with it...