W came downstairs and was dress and ready to leave. I assumed we were going to visit FIL GF at hospital so I started to get ready myself.
W said - "I am going to pick up my script, then I will be back in a little bit"
Me - "We're not going to visit"
W - "Not today"
Me - "Oh, OK"
W - "I don't feel good and I don't want her to see me like this cause then she will worry"
Me - "That's understood. Why are you taking your gun with you?"
W - "Because I feel like it, I waited a year to get a permit to carry it"
Me - "No, nothing wrong with that"
W - "Don't worry, I am not going to shoot anyone"
Me - "Or yourself"
W - "I would not do that to my father"
After a few of silence
Me - "I am concerned about you"
W - "You don't need to be"
Me - "You say you would not do that because of your father but other wise you would"
W - "No, I am saying my father is everything, so I would not do that to him and be that selfish. You know how much he means to me, he is the reason why I still live in this area"
As an FYI W decided long ago that she wanted to remain in this area rather than seek a career elsewhere, I even encouraged her to do so and that I would make the career adjustment, W said she loved me wanted to spend life with me and start a family together, so she did not seek a career elsewhere.
Me - "I know how much your father means to you. I am just concerned that's all."
W - with a very disgusted look on her face "You don't need to be"
and then she walked out the door.
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W is so obsessed with OM. W sees us as a mistake, that is actually part of her password for some website logins.
I'm beginning to believe this divorce is NOT and CANNOT be busted.
W is making me out to be worse of a person than I really was.
W acts like everything she ever said was all a mistake and wishes we never happened.
W just posted this quote on facebook before she left
Quote:
Everyone sees who I appear to be but only a few know the real me, you only see what I choose to show there's so much behind my smile you just don't know.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
