I will be doing both things post haste on Monday.
The lawyer will be a phone call to arrange a meeting.

-Awoken-
I have started reading your sitch..... Sorry for all that you have been through.

Have a man hug on me.

I read a sitch were they were advised to wait 48hrs from the bomb to doing anything. This is good advice and I have taken it on board.

The prayer that was posted to me is bang on target - thanks for it.

A big thanks to you all for taking the time to post to me.
It is a big help to know you are not alone.

Changing the locks would be a knee jerk reaction, and the tone it would set could never be undone.

I take all your advice to heart, but as I am in the middle of all this, my head is spinning and my emotions are all over the place, sometimes I may not appreciate your advice at first.
It takes time to sink through the fog in my mind.

Forest and the trees syndrome.

Thanks for the lawyer advice - why a female lawyer?

Never heard of NOLO, but I am looking for it later.

There are no shared credit cards, just a shared deposit account for our everyday needs, as were are staring at bankruptcy at the moment.
Regards,
Gyn.



Cause all of the stars,
Have faded away,
Just try not to worry,
You'll see them someday.
Take what you need,
And be on your way and,
Stop crying your heart out.