That's a weird dream, NM! Shows what's on our minds. . .
Yeah, I know I need to spend time with him. I'm. . . interested in it, but if he's not, then I'm not going to push it. Here's how I expect things to go after the baby is born: he sees the baby hopefully once a week or more with his family and gets used to the baby. They leave. I hope he reaches out, but it will probably be me reaching out to say that he can actually come over to my place and see me to see her. We'll hopefully get there around Aug-Sep. We'll see what happens after that!
I was even imagining just right now when I was out on my walk that he could come over to my place, get the jogging stroller, take her out, and then bring her back to my place. That kind of thing to get us started.
This all depends on him becoming attached to her! I think it will happen, but there's a chance he'll keep escaping.
K, off to get a carseat! (Well, I'll check your threads first, ha.)