DNO and Doc, I'm not sure what to do about her wanting to be private about her marital status in the dance community. She's not consistent about it, which adds to the confusion. It's obvious we're a couple to many people. She talks about us as a couple tomany people. She's a very private person in general.
My W is certainly one to push boundaries. I will have to get better at at increasing my repertoire of responses and actions available when these occur. I believe that unless I become skilled at boundary setting, this M will not move forward in a healthy direction.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
