Oh, and Red. The ONLY reason he is calling you the pet names is so that he can "keep you on the hook". This is a very obvious attempt at controlling you. NOT a change of heart. He is worried that the OW may reject him and you are the backup. Look at his actions (taking kids to work event with OW) not his words.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
