Well it's official another MLC in my family...my oldest daughter. Suspected about a yr ago but she is acting and saying the same things to her husband. Wearing younger clothes,hair,car.Keeps saying she is tired of being married.Telling her husband she wishes she was single,constant fighting in front of the children,spewing all over the place.Has a friend who is an enabler to it. Maybe I am old fashioned but I thought your bf would not enable such behaviour....maye she is going thru one herself. A darn shame they have been married 23 yrs just a few days ago. She has been struggling with this for well over a yr. You cant talk to her, cant tell her anything,has no concern whether the girls are home alone or not,spends her entire time away from home with her bff. Grandkids are 12 and 16 they arent babies any more but it is so obvious she could care less what they are doing. I know all we can do is come in here and vent and ask for your prayers. She is a big time monster right now, we had a big fight the other night with me trying to remind her of the pain and destruction that comes when people start doing the things that are now going on i/e my husband left. All she says now to me is I AM IN A MIDLIFE CRISIS MOM....OK.LEAVE ME ALONE.yelling at me that my husband in never coming back....that I have always tried to control her ( I wish) NOTHING BUT SPEWING SPEWING SPEWING... Just when I thought I was in a better place now this!!!!!