Nothing wrong with the advice I have been given, all of it is plainly put and honestly put.

This is why I am dithering over changing the locks.
The long term issues that could arise from such an action are what is scaring me.

At the moment my emotions are clouding my thinking. The advice on here is clinically given - no emotions .

I have spoken to work and I am taking a week off to sort myself out.
This sorting out will include 2 things to be done firstly,

1. Arrange to see a Lawyer.

2. Change the bank details.

I will not be changing the locks.

When you explained your reason about going to the police, and having a report taken - this made more sense to me . I will see what the lawyer says about it.

The advice about keeping the higher moral ground is good advice. This gives me an aim to my actions.

I want to avoid knee jerk reactions.
I do want to 'do something' as has been mentioned.

Changing the bank account and seeing a lawyer is doing something.

Regards,
Gyn



Cause all of the stars,
Have faded away,
Just try not to worry,
You'll see them someday.
Take what you need,
And be on your way and,
Stop crying your heart out.