Gatsby, I see why you haven't gained too much weight if you have the willpower to wait to satisfy your hunger!Willpower while pregnant? Damn you are strong! lol!

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I don't want to look at her as a little WH. She is her own person.


Gatsby you are so wise! I remember being surprised at the realization that S was his own person...I mean he looks exactly like WH (hey- maybe that's why I cry around S! lol!) but he really doesn't act like either of us yet. And I remember thinking that it doesn't really matter that he is my "blood" child because if he was adopted, he would still be his own little person and I would love him just as much!

Oh and I am curious if all of your babies will look like your WH- I read somewhere that the babies tend to look like their dads during the several months to 1)assure the dads they are the father and 2)encourage the dads to stick around/bond...sheesh I need to cite my sources so y'all don't think I make this stuff up! But the weird thing is that in my baby play group, there are 5 other babies and THEY ALL look like their dads!Now one mom's second child really looks like her, so I don't know what to make of that...but it will be interesting to see if your babies look like your Hs!


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Your little gal is more likely to take after you - my theory, the more distressing the pregnancy, the calmer the baby. Hey, the idea works for me!


I went through what you ladies are going through and S is pretty mellow! Piano I think you are right!

Also- I LOVE the British Office!!! I watched it way before the American Office and although I really really like Steve Carrell, Ricky Gervais' version of the boss just makes you love to hate him! But what is cool is that Steve Carell's "Michael" is his own person in comparison, with some similar characterisics.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004