I have spent the last few day reading Chocolateeyes and Puppy. The first one was much easier to follow than Puppy. Right now I am up to about a year ago and I will keep reading but it is hard to follow the right posts about your sich. OMG I do understand a little bit better where you are coming from. I feel sorry for you for the past 20 years. I haven't finished the last year but by your comments on this thread I can't help think that nothing much has changed. I do think that the time you have been on this board(6 years) you have totally missed what is going on with your W. Of course that is JMHO. You are closer to the sich and I am sure have better insight into it.
Oh, she definitely has issues, but to be honest, I've grown weary over the years of trying to diagnose, fix, or try whatever latest technique or strategy. We get along great, our friendship is better than ever, she's completely faithful now and we're just focusing on raising our kids and our new grandchild. If and when she decides that she wants to address her issues, I supposed she'll go back to the IC/MC we were seeing.
