By telling her not to call I was trying to get my head to calm down. I now know that she won't call.
Umm... no you don't. You just know you told her not to call. You are just trying to exhert some control over a situation not entirely in your control.
You can decide not to wait for her to call any time you like, and you should not agree to wait for her call (that is her trying to control the situation if she makes such demands.)
Next time she calls, don't pick up. Or if you do pickup, then say you were just headed out of the door, and ask if she has a number where you can call her back. That will make her angry if she is playing a control game, so be nice about how you do it.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 05/16/1012:27 PM.
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