6 MONTHS IN AND FEELING A WOBBLE........

[lalxx]

juts a bit of an update really. This is a weekend when I have our children. I continue to be NC - leaving the phone near my children when my husband will call to speak to them etc. He texts me pretty much most days saying 'can I call now please?' or 'would it be ok to call now please?' - quite childlike and uber polite....I mainly repsond with a 'yes of course, we are at home'

Last night I got a text from him letting me know that some friends of ours, their daughter had given birth and there had been complications and she was in surgery.
I responded 'thank you for tellimg me. Would you mind keeping me posted please?'. My husband sent me a couple of little updates to what he knew immediately after this text.
This couple had sent me a letter in September 2009 taking my husband's side and essentially wishing me well but adios - this was just preBomb and they never spoke to me to get my side of the story - they just took everything he said at face value. I was completely devastated as they'd been our friends for 16 years. I have since had e-mail corresondance with the guy and we have an e-mail relationship and he knows my feelings on how I was treated - I also know they gave my husband a very hard time when he was back in touch aroudn christmas time for his lies.

Baby and Mummy and doing fine, she was in surgery and is now out of imminenet danger.

Not sure why this interaction signifies really - he is with OW (basically lives with her when not working/up North with our children) but after the anger and the vitriol of his recent e-mails and solicitors letters it has left me quizical.

Still detached and still NC - GAL and the sun is still shining!

lalxx