Okay, so for your next wake up... I learnt about OW when he dropped the bomb two days after arriving in the country (it was Dec 27 I think). The previous 24hrs he had become a nervous wreck and looked super depressed and stressed, then finally got me alone and said "Something has happened....", and I knew straight away it meant he had had an affair! He answered my questions: with who, do you love her (should never have asked that), etc.
My WH does love being "busy". Bet he's not busy when OW calls! One thing I have also learnt about WH is that he is a major catastrophiser about work, despite being sucessful. "How was your day, dear?". "Absolutely dreadful!", "It couldn't get worse"(eyeroll). He works in a precarious industry.I guess it job insecurity gets to you after a while.
Okay, so what happened post the pediatrician recommendation? You went to SIL's and that was kinda it? (sorry to get you to repeat - feel free to tell me to stop being lazy and go back and reread what you posted way back!).
Your little gal is more likely to take after you - my theory, the more distressing the pregnancy, the calmer the baby. Hey, the idea works for me!
I wanted to say I like the Office too, but we have the English one here, though I noticed they've started showing the American version too.