Do something for yourself so you don't have to worry about it. You have to throw yourself into your own life.

OfficerInNeed W's A is about to get blown out further. The reason is W is having some fantasies about OM who is working on it with his W. OM has newfound love in his own W and thinking about having another kid. OfficerInNeed is hoping that his wife see's the facebook messages so it will be the final withdrawl from the memory of OM.

In your sitch, if OMW can shake this up and OM comes to his senses - it will be cheaper to stay home. Then your wife will get the dose that will save you.

Regardless, you can't worry about it, call OMW like you planned take care of yourself and I hope things work out for you.

I know what you say about the sick feelings, when they turn A on us its a different person and its scarey how far they can get twisted.