thnks for replying to my thread. I've scanned yours and yes it's OK to feel down about the sitch once in a while. It can be exhausting working on a PMA sometimes. I found myself crying the X Factor the other week! Sad sad sad. Still the downs get less.
I beieve your H will get to resent OW in time.
I've also read on here that if they want to start reconnecting it's with the kids, family and friends first and the spouse last. So maybe I'm being over enthusiastic but a step in the right direction? Take it steady though keep doing want your doing watching, evaluating before action.