She is also still telling me that I am a control freak.

I asked, "How am I being a control freak?"

She said, "By kicking me out."

I said, "I'm not kicking you out; I'm asking you to choose - reconcile the relationship or leave."

She said, "This is how you are controlling the situation."

I said, "OK, what would be the NOBLE thing for me to do? What would you do if you were in my situation?" She didn't answer.

She also says that she's not going to a counselor.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.