"I am not throwing you out, or even asking you to leave. I am protecting myself and these children from a selfish and thoughtless parent. You can come back to your senses at any time you want. But ONE of us at least has to think about these kids. If anyone should be angry and stubborn instead of forgiving and generous it should be me... You walk out that door instead of rebuilding this marriage and family its on YOUR conscience. I am willing to forgive and cooperate... But I will not put me or these children through a wreckless affair in their own home... If you are going to ruin a life, its going to be yours... But yours alone... These children come first."
