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[Mila]

M&H - I'm not sure if I would want OW to contact me and apologize. Actually when my OW broke it of with my H for the first time she apparently wanted to call me and apologize. I'm glad that she didn't. I don't respect her and it wouldn't have made any difference how I feel about her at all. It would probably make her feel better, but it wouldn't do anything for me.

I know that your situation is different, you didn't know that you were the OW, but would that make any difference to her now? You still ended up with her H.

But it all depends...Have you had any contact with her in the past? Do you talk about the children? I'm assuming those are her kids that you are raising. It really depends what kind of relationship you have with her.

Difficult one...I'm sure that you will get more opinions.