Thanks Allen for those thoughts and ideas.

Here is what she is telling me:

"You can't kick me out of the house."

"What if I stop communicating with him for two months and then we get a divorce. Are you still going to accuse me of having an affair and harming the children?"

It seems that she wants a divorce and is afraid to do it right now because I will say those things.

I really can't afford a lawyer, but that is what I think I need.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.