I am so thankful for the responses I am getting. I feel so alone in this until I come to this forum and read:-)

I just don't understand why my H HATES me so much and wants to hurt me. I continue to be nice to him, but he continues to push me away and is mean. I wish there was something I could do to soften his heart to me.

M: 34
WAH: 38 (in MLC)
Together: 11 years
Married since: November 2000
DS: 15
DS: 11
DS: 10
ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009
Living separately since: April 2010