Not sure which way to go anymore

[Abbey]

Thus why you have to limit contact as I had to during the "next phase" of us working our way back to each other.

That old saying grandma said about giving the "milk for free" etc... applies here. Keeping him "away" as much as possible so that you have the time to work on you is paramount. Difficult, I know *hugs*... esp with DS,... but it works in your best interest.

Also, there will come a day when he'll drop a crumb of his own... that's when you say: The door is opened an inch... you want back in... YOU have to work at it. Hardest thing that ever came out of my mouth to my H... and will be for you too... esp when you just want to drag them in and say... come home. They have to want it so bad they can taste. Absence/heart grows fonder etc.

*hugs*
Abbey