I know from reading my H's emails that one time, that she was obsessed with me. It was all, "oh, you're my soul mate, you complete me," "W wants to be my friend on FB, what do I do?" "I've never felt this way before" "Is W's name also on the deeds to your houses?" "We're so perfect together, smoochy, smoochy" "So, W is a God nut now? She actually taught the children the ten commandments."
LOL - it was all me, me, me, I should have been flattered. LOLOL
I would not doubt that the OWs ALL give way too much space in their heads to us to occupy... which is fine with me. I sometimes can't even remember her name any more, it's getting that detached in my head from reality.
